Being able to enjoy the company of others around you is a great feeling. When you have people in your life that build you up instead of breaking you down brings strong chemistry into your life. Growing up you always hear about the village it takes to raise a child, in other words there is a supporting cast that has a tremendous impact on your growth. We grow and we learn from all things that surround us and every person that provides a spark that ignites the light that guides us through this journey of life. The support system is key for you to take sides with and hold a firm grip to. At some points in our growth we began to drift away from these strong connections we have. But in reality it is those outside forces that start to effect the choices you decide to make during your development. There are many different forces that shape us into the people we have become or are growing to embody. But let's talk about these different stages.
When we began to grow into that teenage stage there is a huge transition on how we view others beliefs and even the teachings of our upbringings. This is where we started to feel the nature of popularity and being accepted by our fellow peers. It's funny thinking back about those times and remembering how defiant I could be sometimes. Never understanding why so much work and teachings were being pushed to me, but it is now in this transition into adulthood that you understand everything that you were being presented to was all for the benefits of your growth. Maturity doesn't come with age but the older you are I can ensure to you that it you are exposed to more things. Your growth takes effect in many different places and stages throughout your life.
So the question comes to my mind, how do we appreciate the company of the supporting cast? I know how much power they have. When you have people in your life that can pick you up when you start to tumble, or even those people that shake you up when you need some adjustments. All of those powers that surround you help shape you into the person you grow into every day. Those teachings running through your head constantly, the voices that keep you in line. We need that extra push in this life full of ups and downs. The lessons we learn all should always remain embedded in all of us. No person is who they are without the people around them. The support keeps you in a good space, where you can remain free from any negativity and there is a covered ride through the pushing through of life and growth.
Thursday, March 31, 2016
Friday, March 25, 2016
G.O.O.D
Do you ever sit back some days and just examine the environment that surrounds you. The world and everything in it has been around for quite some time now. The growth that has been steadily developing throughout the lives of each and every generation. We have made so much progression since the beginning of times. The rapid growth in technology along with the growing minds throughout society. More people are growing to adapt to a better lifestyle and this plays into the growth of the whole universe as a whole. Now I have to admit that there are some gray lines in this process of growth, in fact we are still in the bonding stage between all people. A problem that many don't see a end to but with the progression of society as a unit, it can only lead to a positive outcome.
The vibes that surround us are very strong and they also contain contagion. For example, have you ever been in a room with friends and its all good energy until another friend comes in discussing some problems, you will began to sense the whole vibe of the room come down. And that is just how easy it is to transfer energy between people. So instead of pushing out the negativity why don't we all just make the strong push produce positivity. I understand that all things in life cant always be positive but I always have to stress the transformation of that negativity to positivity. I think for people to be able to remain in a good space they have to find that one thing that can make them feel like they are being taken away from everything. For me that one thing is writing along with music. The feel I get is something I recommend for everyone to experience.
In order for us to produce these good spaces we must form unity. The gap between the people of our generation is devastating and has a huge impact on the progression of all of us as a unit. We can bring division and then long for change, that's like a criminal wanting to be free but still have the drive to commit more crime. We as people cant be flip flop. Cheering one day and booing the next, this only leads to confusion and lack of progression. I know that this generation is growing to be more accepting of different beliefs and backgrounds(which is a good thing), but understanding each other better and sharing the space of positivity around everywhere leads to that progression we really need.
The vibes that surround us are very strong and they also contain contagion. For example, have you ever been in a room with friends and its all good energy until another friend comes in discussing some problems, you will began to sense the whole vibe of the room come down. And that is just how easy it is to transfer energy between people. So instead of pushing out the negativity why don't we all just make the strong push produce positivity. I understand that all things in life cant always be positive but I always have to stress the transformation of that negativity to positivity. I think for people to be able to remain in a good space they have to find that one thing that can make them feel like they are being taken away from everything. For me that one thing is writing along with music. The feel I get is something I recommend for everyone to experience.
In order for us to produce these good spaces we must form unity. The gap between the people of our generation is devastating and has a huge impact on the progression of all of us as a unit. We can bring division and then long for change, that's like a criminal wanting to be free but still have the drive to commit more crime. We as people cant be flip flop. Cheering one day and booing the next, this only leads to confusion and lack of progression. I know that this generation is growing to be more accepting of different beliefs and backgrounds(which is a good thing), but understanding each other better and sharing the space of positivity around everywhere leads to that progression we really need.
Friday, March 18, 2016
The Dream State
This is a dream state that takes you away from all the drama that goes on in your outside world. We experience a number of different avenues throughout these days. Every person we see, every situation we go through weighs on us throughout the process of the day but there is one thing that takes you away from these daily encounters. Every person needs this space to get away from these things, some of us go about the breakaway differently, but I think the best way is the dream state. When we all are moving through the hustle and bustle of everyday life we all long for that break away zone. This zone takes me into another world a new universe rather. To feel alive through these dreams and we run through these tunnels of stages. Every stage takes me further and further away from all the drama we have encountered through our days. I love this feeling, to be able to rest after all the words of the day have been spoken, to be able to let everything just clear your head, even through all of the hardships that you may have thought of and or encountered through these days, this state takes you away from all of that.
I speak about this dream state in such a fashion because I know how I feel when I experience it. I know that it takes me away from all off the negativity that I has been presented through this time I have spent up and alert, leaving me to take in all of the energy around me. I know that when I have the luxury of getting to experience this take away zone, I take advantage of it and I remain in my most restful stage, it feels like a godly blessings sometimes. I am giving my body an opportunity to regroup itself, a healing process both in and out. I know that many have their many different religious views. But I will speak to the fact that I know God speaks to me in these zones at time. I am being prepared for what is coming next for me.
There are some situations that make us lose the opportunity to gain this peace we experience through sleep. These things can make up of many different things such as, work, school, projects, family situations and an array of other obstacles that can at times seem to break us during life. But the idea that I am really trying to push through this is that even in these roller coaster days, there is always that one antidote that can take you away from all of the vibes through these rough days. This dream state is something that I know everyone really loves the feeling of. Some love it more than others and that sometimes lead us to laziness but we work through these loopholes to provide a better space for the next day that we have set force in front of us. We need rest and good vibes to get through these things, so let us not forget about its importance.
I speak about this dream state in such a fashion because I know how I feel when I experience it. I know that it takes me away from all off the negativity that I has been presented through this time I have spent up and alert, leaving me to take in all of the energy around me. I know that when I have the luxury of getting to experience this take away zone, I take advantage of it and I remain in my most restful stage, it feels like a godly blessings sometimes. I am giving my body an opportunity to regroup itself, a healing process both in and out. I know that many have their many different religious views. But I will speak to the fact that I know God speaks to me in these zones at time. I am being prepared for what is coming next for me.
There are some situations that make us lose the opportunity to gain this peace we experience through sleep. These things can make up of many different things such as, work, school, projects, family situations and an array of other obstacles that can at times seem to break us during life. But the idea that I am really trying to push through this is that even in these roller coaster days, there is always that one antidote that can take you away from all of the vibes through these rough days. This dream state is something that I know everyone really loves the feeling of. Some love it more than others and that sometimes lead us to laziness but we work through these loopholes to provide a better space for the next day that we have set force in front of us. We need rest and good vibes to get through these things, so let us not forget about its importance.
Friday, March 4, 2016
Battle of Sexes
The everlasting clash between the two sides of a male's perspective and a women's perspective. The battle that seems to have no end in sight, the stronger these connections get these days the more learning and growing we must experience through it. What I am writing about is the different ways we view platonic and intimate relationships. This has been something that has been weighing on me for a good amount of time. Having discussions amongst both sides of the spectrum, leave me here to write about it.
I recently was in deep conversion with a girl I consider to be the equal of a blood sibling, we were talking about how the way that guys think and how their perspective dictates how girls shape their beliefs on relational things. To be more clear, girls act on the action of guys which can lead to both negative and positive effects. The positive is that girls have a better insight on the guy's perspective of things helping her be better prepared for different reactions to various situations. But the negative is that unfortunately there are a number of girls who take in the wrong perception of the situation and when they react with counter actions it not only hurts the relationship but it also gives way to world of stereotypes placed on most guys when it come to the topic of relationships.
These stereotypes and beliefs stem from a number of different vessels. All things ranging from the constant argument that no guy can commit to true loyalty, to the counter argument that girls are way to friendly to other guys. Both sides seem to always attack the idea of loyalty, but why is that? Is it because we as people cant trust ourselves, so trusting others seems like a unbeatable task? Or is it because we are so afraid of commitment that when we experience something real we may not be strong enough to handle it?
Girls and guys when always fight this battle no matter how far ahead we are in these relational things. We both always have a supporting cast behind us through every argument, acting as proofreaders to our mistaken situation (your friends). Receiving insight from people on their thoughts and opinions only fills your mind with so many diverse ideas that when it comes time to collectively think together to solve our differences, we are left with the ideas of others mixed in with our own emotions leaving us to wonder, will this back and forth game ever be completed, or are we all new players in a game of hall of famers. These situations happen in the best of relationships, and these topics are always debated because both sides always feel the need for more insight and even clarity from their opposing side. Working together helps out the most and working through negative problems is paramount.
I recently was in deep conversion with a girl I consider to be the equal of a blood sibling, we were talking about how the way that guys think and how their perspective dictates how girls shape their beliefs on relational things. To be more clear, girls act on the action of guys which can lead to both negative and positive effects. The positive is that girls have a better insight on the guy's perspective of things helping her be better prepared for different reactions to various situations. But the negative is that unfortunately there are a number of girls who take in the wrong perception of the situation and when they react with counter actions it not only hurts the relationship but it also gives way to world of stereotypes placed on most guys when it come to the topic of relationships.
These stereotypes and beliefs stem from a number of different vessels. All things ranging from the constant argument that no guy can commit to true loyalty, to the counter argument that girls are way to friendly to other guys. Both sides seem to always attack the idea of loyalty, but why is that? Is it because we as people cant trust ourselves, so trusting others seems like a unbeatable task? Or is it because we are so afraid of commitment that when we experience something real we may not be strong enough to handle it?
Girls and guys when always fight this battle no matter how far ahead we are in these relational things. We both always have a supporting cast behind us through every argument, acting as proofreaders to our mistaken situation (your friends). Receiving insight from people on their thoughts and opinions only fills your mind with so many diverse ideas that when it comes time to collectively think together to solve our differences, we are left with the ideas of others mixed in with our own emotions leaving us to wonder, will this back and forth game ever be completed, or are we all new players in a game of hall of famers. These situations happen in the best of relationships, and these topics are always debated because both sides always feel the need for more insight and even clarity from their opposing side. Working together helps out the most and working through negative problems is paramount.
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